Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Its all about..

Its all about.. marriage? What is marriage? Marriage has traditionally been understood as the union of one man and one woman. Marriage is uniquely beneficial to society because it is the foundation of the family and the basic building block of society.

# It brings significant stability and meaning to human relationships
# It remains the ideal for the raising of children.
# It plays an important role in transferring culture and civilization into future generations.
# Marriage is not merely a private contract, but a social institution of great public concern.

"Marriage is the civil status of one man and one woman united in law for life, for the discharge to each other and the community of the duties legally incumbent on those who association is founded on the distinction of sex." - Black's Law Dictionary, dating back to 1891

In Islam marriage is viewed as a sacred contract. It is the stern command of Islam that the sexual instinct, natural to man should attain consummation only through wedlock. Matrimony is a holy act. Celibacy has been strongly prohibited. The dos and don’ts that the two mates ought to adopt in matrimonial life have been prescribed by Islam. Obeying these stipulations, man and woman can ensure a successful and blissful married life and a peaceful life after death.

# The resources of this world are for you to enjoy. The best wealth you can have in this world is a good wife.
# The best wealth that a man can have in this world is a good wife. A good wife is one who is a joy to look at, one who obeys her husband’s commands and one who protects the wealth during his absence.
# The best of men are those who treat their wives well.
- Prophet Muhammed (PBUH)

"And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): Verily in that on Signs for those who reflect.." Holy Qur’an 30:21

Hikmah-hikmah perkahwinan
# Untuk memperoleh ketenangan hidup, kasih sayang dan ketenteraman
# Memelihara kesucian diri
# Melaksanakan tuntutan syariat
# Menjaga keturunan
# Sebagai media pendidikan: Islam begitu teliti dalam menyediakan persekitaran yang sihat bagi membesarkan anak-anak.Kanak-kanak yang dibesarkan tanpa perhubungan ibu bapa akan memudahkan si anak terjerumus dalam kegiatan tidak bermoral. Oleh itu, institusi kekeluargaan yang disyorkan Islam dilihat medium yang sesuai sebagai petunjuk dan pedoman kepada anak-anak
# Mewujudkan kerjasama dan tanggungjawab
# Dapat mengeratkan silaturahim

so dear MAD, what i'm trying to say here is, if u think that its already time for u to bid farewell to ur singleton years n embracing husband/fatherhood instead, i will support u all the way. i will not show anythin but my support n encouragement for u. u will never see anythin but smile n happiness on my face when u talk bout this with me. God knows what i feel inside but u wont know anythin bout it. i wont tell u what i feel, i wont object to anythin. coz this time its not about me. its all about u.

"She'd better hold him tight, give him all her love
Look in those beautiful eyes and know she's lucky cause.."

n its 'teardrops on my guitar' all over again..

He looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see..


TIA said...

da ckp pasal marriage gituu
sis bila pulak maw get married??

Halie said...

oo adikku ini ada blog upenye. diam2 jek dia ek..

lmbt lg la nk kawen yang oi. nk tgu walimatulurus incek belon dulu. sob sob..